Following the heartbreaking death of 14-year-old Caleb Moore, the Metropolitan Police have issued updated guidance on sextortion—an increasingly common and dangerous form of online blackmail.
What Happened to Caleb Moore?
Caleb, a teenager from the U.S., tragically took his own life after being manipulated by someone posing as a girl on social media. The fake account first contacted him on TikTok, later moving their conversation to Snapchat. Believing he was speaking to a girl his own age, Caleb received what appeared to be explicit images and was encouraged to send intimate photos in return.
Shortly after he complied, the account turned threatening, demanding money in exchange for not leaking his images online.
The entire exchange lasted just 35 minutes.
Unable to see a way out, Caleb died by suicide—leaving his family devastated.
“He thought his life was over because he made a mistake,” said his mother, Morgan. “When I arrived, Caleb was still breathing, but they couldn’t revive him. I wasn’t allowed inside, and it was agonizing not being able to be with him.”
The El Dorado Police Department later confirmed the nature of the messages exchanged.
Both TikTok and Snapchat issued statements to LADbible Group, outlining safety measures in place to protect teens—including restrictions on direct messaging for users under 16 and private settings for 13 to 17-year-olds.
What Is Sextortion?
Sextortion is a form of online blackmail where criminals trick individuals—often posing as someone they’re not—into sending explicit images or videos. Once those images are obtained, the blackmail begins. Victims are threatened with exposure unless they pay money or provide more content.
The Metropolitan Police warn that while anyone can be targeted, teens aged 15–17 and adults under 30 are especially vulnerable.
What Should You Do if You or Someone You Know Is a Victim?
- Know that it’s not your fault. You are not to blame.
- Report the crime. If you feel safe, report the incident to the police.
- Understand the law. Sharing intimate images without consent is illegal under UK law and can result in up to two years in prison.
- Seek support.
- Adults can contact Revenge Porn Helpline, Stop NCII, or Revenge Porn Online.
- Under-18s can use Childline’s Report Remove tool for help in removing images and getting support.
How to Spot and Prevent Sextortion
The Met Police advise being aware of the red flags used by online criminals:
- Someone you’ve just met online quickly turning the conversation sexual.
- Repeated pressure to send intimate photos or videos.
- Claims they’ve hacked your device or gained access to your contact list.
Offenders often hide behind fake profiles and may seem charming or convincing at first. The goal is to gain trust quickly, then exploit it.
Final Word
Caleb Moore’s tragic story is a stark reminder of the real dangers lurking behind screens. Authorities urge parents, carers, and young people to talk openly about online safety, and for victims to remember: you are not alone, and help is available.
