Though they live less than an hour apart in Texas, two teenagers didn’t realize their families were deeply connected until a scholarship competition in Los Angeles brought them face-to-face earlier this month.
Catherine Norris and Lizzie Rule, both 18, had traveled to California to compete for the Children of Heroes Scholarship, a program designed to support the children of first responders who were injured or killed while serving their communities.
What they didn’t expect was to learn that Catherine’s mother, Wendy — a fire department chaplain and grief counselor — had been present the day Lizzie’s father was killed five years earlier.
Lizzie’s dad, Fort Bend Deputy Constable Caleb Rule, was 37 when he was accidentally shot by another deputy while responding to a call on May 29, 2020 — the same day Lizzie’s older sister graduated from high school.
Catherine’s father, Forest Bend Fire Chief John Pittman Norris Jr., 55, passed away from a heart attack after returning home from a fire on Nov. 25, 2023.
When the two families met in Los Angeles, they initially thought it was for the first time. But Wendy quickly recognized their connection.
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Over ice cream, she asked Lizzie’s mom, Eden, if she was a board member or donor. Eden explained she was a widow who lost her husband in the line of duty. At that moment, Wendy realized the bond.
“I was there that day when your husband died,” Wendy told her. “To now meet your family after all this time is incredible. It feels like a blessing.”
Later, during a joint interview, Wendy shared with Lizzie: “When your dad died, I was called to be part of the crisis response team for his colleagues. In a way, I was part of your family long before we ever met.”
The Children of Heroes Scholarship is a partnership between the First Responders Children’s Foundation and Scooter Braun’s Braun Foundation. It was created to help the children of fallen or disabled first responders pursue higher education.
Braun, who funds the program and helps select recipients, said the goal is to ease financial burdens. “Children of first responders shouldn’t have to worry about where they go to school,” he told PEOPLE.
Initially, Catherine and Lizzie were told the scholarship would provide $5,000 per semester. But Braun surprised them with an upgrade: their full undergraduate tuition would now be covered.
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The announcement was made during a special meeting with the girls, their mothers, Braun, and First Responders Children’s Foundation president and CEO, Jillian Crane.
“We owe it to these families,” Crane said. “The relief on these parents’ faces, knowing their children can pursue college without financial strain, means the world.”
Both teens were stunned by the news.
Catherine said, “I was overwhelmed with gratitude. It took a moment to sink in.” Lizzie agreed: “I didn’t think I had done that well in the interview. I never expected this.”
Lizzie, a freshman at Texas State University, hopes to study acting in New York, inspired by her parents’ passion for community theater. Catherine, studying entrepreneurship at Belmont University in Nashville, dreams of opening her own coffee shop one day.
Two other students were also awarded full scholarships this year: Camren Callender, whose father, a Newark police detective, died in the line of duty; and Joe Gianni Aliott, whose father, a firefighter and 9/11 first responder, was diagnosed with cancer.
For Braun, the selection process is never easy. “Each year, you just want to help more kids. You think about your own life and how fortunate you’ve been, and you can’t help but want to give back.”
For Wendy Norris, the trip was about more than financial support. “The money is helpful, but the connection is the real gift. Meeting Lizzie and Eden expanded our chosen family in a way we never expected.”