When Allison Wilcox found out she was pregnant in January 2023, her excitement lasted less than a day.
The morning after her first positive test, she began bleeding heavily. An internal exam suggested she was miscarrying at just five weeks, and she and her husband were left devastated — believing their pregnancy was already over.
But instead of closure, Wilcox entered a drawn-out, emotionally draining limbo: weeks of confusing symptoms, conflicting assessments, and repeated warnings that the pregnancy was “not viable.”
“My pregnancy was quite the rollercoaster from the very beginning,” Wilcox, 33, says.
After hearing the word “miscarriage,” the elementary school teacher and her husband spent the next week grieving, leaning on loved ones and trying to process the loss of something they’d only just begun to dream about. Then, a week later, severe lower back pain sent her back into fear.
A family member who is a physician urged her to go to the emergency room to rule out an ectopic pregnancy. The ultrasound showed no ectopic pregnancy — but doctors told her something even more jarring: that she wasn’t pregnant at all. One doctor, she recalls, said that “at this point, miscarriage is the best outcome.”
A few days later, on the way to a follow-up appointment with an obstetrician, Wilcox called her sister in tears. She’d had a vivid dream that doctors suddenly found the baby on an ultrasound — and, unbelievably, that’s exactly what happened.
Her human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) levels — the hormone produced primarily by the placenta during pregnancy — had climbed from 197 to 707. An ultrasound revealed a yolk sac. There was still no heartbeat, but her doctors told her that could be normal at that stage.
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“It felt like the most amazing miracle,” Wilcox says. “We called everyone, celebrated and taped the tiny ultrasound photo to our fridge.”
The relief didn’t last long.
Just 48 hours later, lab results came in while she was teaching. Her hCG had barely moved, her progesterone dropped below what doctors considered viable, and she was still bleeding. That afternoon, her OB called with the same grim conclusion: the pregnancy would not survive.
“It felt like a miracle had been dangled in front of us and then ripped away,” Wilcox says.
Determined to keep searching for answers, she sought additional opinions across Colorado. Over the course of the early weeks, she underwent 36 ultrasounds. Again and again, after reviewing her labs and scans, doctors told her she was experiencing a miscarriage.
At around seven and a half weeks, a new OB confirmed there was still no heartbeat and said the baby was measuring smaller than expected. She offered three options: schedule a procedure, take medication, or wait for the miscarriage to occur naturally. Wilcox chose to wait.
“Throughout the entire process, all medical professionals offered a pretty limited explanation of what was happening,” she says. “Everything was so painful at the time that I didn’t ask very many questions; I was just drowning in my own grief and trying to get from one moment to the next.”
The next day, Wilcox returned to her hometown OB, where a high-risk sonographer reviewed the case carefully and told the couple she wasn’t ready to give up hope.
“This sonographer — who we now refer to as ‘Auntie Beth’ — was incredible and checked on our baby every week and really tried to reassure us,” Wilcox says.
At eight and a half weeks, she heard the baby’s heartbeat for the first time. The yolk sac appeared unusually large — a possible warning sign — but the heartbeat was a turning point.
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By 10 weeks, her scans finally began to look normal. Then, in February 2023, everything jolted again.
The school where Wilcox worked went into lockdown during an elaborate school-shooting hoax. For two hours, she crouched on the floor, shielding her 22 students. When the building was cleared and she stood up, she says blood began “gushing” down her legs.
Certain she had lost the baby, she and her husband rushed to the hospital — only to find the hospital was also on lockdown.
“We ended up having to go to a public restroom so I could change because I was covered in blood, and my husband held my hand while we passed what we both were sure was our baby,” she recalls.
Later, doctors determined it had been a massive blood clot caused by a severe subchorionic hemorrhage — bleeding between the uterine wall and the chorionic membrane. In the ER that day, they learned the baby still had a heartbeat.
Between 10 and 20 weeks, the pregnancy stabilized. But the anatomy scan brought new concerns: her daughter had a single umbilical artery and fused kidneys. Wilcox was monitored frequently, often driving long distances to specialists.
“There wasn’t a day for the rest of my pregnancy that I wasn’t terrified of losing her,” she says. “It always felt like I was waiting for the ‘other shoe to drop.’ ”
At 39 weeks, doctors induced labor due to concerns about placental function. Still, Wilcox delivered her daughter without complications in September 2023.
But the hardest moments weren’t fully behind them.
Wilcox says her baby later developed severe genetic sleep-disordered breathing (SDB), which caused her to stop breathing several times as a newborn. When her daughter was 10 months old, sleep studies showed 120 apneic episodes per hour. Now, Wilcox says, she sleeps with oxygen every night.
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Wilcox also says she had to push for testing after her concerns were initially brushed off.
“I was able to catch it and advocate for her to get further testing for months, even though doctors initially really dismissed me as just being an anxious new mom and dealing with some post-traumatic stress from the pregnancy,” she says.
She believes the ordeal of her pregnancy changed how she approaches healthcare — and taught her how hard it can be to be heard.
“I really don’t think we would’ve been able to come to those conclusions, at least this soon in her life, had I not learned from my pregnancy how fragile life can be and the need to advocate for yourself in the medical realm.”
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Today, Wilcox says her daughter — now 2 and a half — is spirited and fearless, even if she has “a few more doctor’s appointments than the average kid.” She’s also become an “amazing” big sister.
And after months of living in fear, the moment she finally held her baby felt like proof that she had made it through.
“When they put her on my chest, it was like I took a breath for the first time in nine months,” Wilcox says.